Investing in Love: A "Get Rich Quick" Scheme for the Heart

...The suggestion now is that you apply basic financial principles to your
relationships. If you approach relationships the way you approach managing
your money, scrutinize the men [or women] you meet and take care when
spending your emotions, you'll end up with someone who can give you a large
return. You'll get rich quick and enjoy emotional wealth.

*Carefully evaluate a prospect before you invest.

Would you throw money away on a get-rich scheme that appears to be a scam?
Why then, would you invest emotions in someone who seems shady?

*Diversify your investments. 

In other words, don't put all your energy and emotion into one [person] until and unless he proves he's worth it. Spread your attention around and enjoy the variety. Socialize, date and leave yourself open to new experiences, even after you're involved. You can maintain an honest commitment and still keep your eyes open.

*You should show your portfolio only to those that are qualified.

Your past is your own personal business. You are not required to tell a man all of your intimate secrets. In fact, it may be unwise to do so. The more you trust a man, the more you can tell him. However, some things should always be kept to yourself, in the closet.

*Avoid investments that are "projects."

Projects are [people] with emotional problems, drug problems and other serious problems. Forget about trying to "fix" [someone] with problems. Like experiments, [people] who are projects tend to be very unpredictable. Unless you have a strong science background and know how to mix combustible chemicals, your "project" might blow up in you face.

*Decide how much you should invest. 

If you meet [someone] who's obviously about game, why put your heart in it? The likelihood is, you'll bedisappointed.

*Never invest more in a prospect than you can afford to lose. 

Remember, a game can have only one winner. If you're a player, know the rules and play to win. At the same time, prepare to count your losses. If and when you do lose, it's easier to move on.

*If your losses begin to exceed your gains, pull out. 

A relationship should be profitable for you emotionally and in other ways. If the cons keep outweighing the pros, or if you continue to take a loss, you'll eventually end up dead broke: mentally, physically, and spiritually.

*Keep your eyes open in case you come across a more profitable investment.

Smart investors watch the market and constantly reassess the value of their
stock. This isn't cheating; this is sound financial principle. The higher
your stock's value, the tighter you should hold onto it.

 


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